Elspeth Adair

1948 - 2003
LocationEdinburgh
Age54 years
Cause of DeathCancer
Date of Birth02/06/1948
Date of Death23/02/2003
Visitors7,711 since 13/06/2008
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HI FOLKS,LAURA NOT FEELING GOOD AT ALL THE NOW,ALL YOUR ANGELS ALWAYS IN HER THOUGHTS,AND HER
DEAREST FRIENDS AS ALWAYS XXX LOVE TO PAPA CHARLIE AND ELSPETH XX

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HI FOLKS JUST TO SAY SORRY FOR NOT BEING ON AS MY ANKYLOSING SPONDYLITIS AND
ARTHRITIS IS PLAYING ME UP BIG TIME AS THE SEASONS CHANGE,MY FEET AND HANDS ARE
TERRIBLY SWOLLEN AND ITS TAKEN ME ALL DAY TO EVEN WANT TO DO ANYTHING AS IT
HURTS,NOT SLEEPING WELL AND UP TO MY EYE BALLS IN PAINKILLERS
...SPEAK SOON LOVE TO YOU AND YOUR ANGELS XXX
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Elspeth Adair (nee)
23/02/2003 54
Lothian Buses Clerkess
Edinburgh

Together now with her loving husband Syd Adair, deceased.
And her mother Elsie (nee Stanard).
And followed by her much loved and devoted father Charlie (29/01/2006)

My much loved sister and greatest friend, whom truly knew me! Know doubt looking after all the
little cats in heaven.
You have a very precious nephew here now, but you'd know that being that he was born on your
anniversary! I think that was your way of making sure I wasn't going to be moping on this date, but
I still think of you always. x Laura, Neil & Harris


Thank You for Dedicating to me at your funeral Andrea Bocelli "Time to Say Goodbye" "I will go with
You" Translated below


Time to say goodbye -- I'll go with you

When I'm alone
I dream of the horizon
and words fail;
yes, I know there is no light
in a room where the sun is absent,
if you are not here with me.
At the windows
show everyone my heart
which you set alight;
enclose within me
the light you
encountered on the street.

Time to say goodbye. -- I'll go with you
to countries I never
saw and shared with you,
now, yes, I shall experience them.
I'll go with you
on ships across seas
which, I know,
no, no, exist no longer;
it's time to say goodbye. -- with you I shall experience them.

When you are far away
I dream of the horizon
and words fail,
and, yes, I know
that you are with me;
you, my moon, are here with me,
my sun, you are here with me
with me, with me, with me.

Time to say goodbye. -- I'll go with you
to countries I never
saw and shared with you,
now, yes, I shall experience them.
I'll go with you
on ships across seas
which, I know,
no, no, exist no longer,

with you I shall experience them again.
I'll go with you
on ships across seas
which, I know,
no, no, exist no longer,
with you I shall experience them again.
I'll go with you.

You and me.

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God's Lent Girl

I'll lend you for a little while a child of mine, God said,
For you to love the while she lives, and mourn for when she's dead.
It may be six or seven years, or forty two or three,
But will you, 'til I call her back, take care of her for me?
She'll bring her charms to gladden you. And should her stay be brief,
You'll always have your memories as solace in your grief.
I cannot promise she will stay, since all from earth return,
But there are lessons taught below I want this child to learn.
I've looked this whole world over in my search for teachers true,
And from the folk that crowd life's lane, I have chosen you.
Now will you give her all your love and not think the labour vain,
Nor hate me when I come to take this lent child back again.
I fancy that I heard them say, 'Dear God Thy will be done',
For all the joys this child will bring, the risk of grief we'll run.
We will shelter her with tenderness, we'll love her while we may,
And for all the happiness we've ever known, we'll ever grateful stay.
But should the angels call her much sooner than we'd planned,
We will brace the bitter grief that comes and try to understand.

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I felt an angel

I felt an angel near today, though one I could not see
I felt an angel oh so close, sent to comfort me
I felt an angel's kiss, soft upon my cheek
And oh, without a single word of caring did it speak
I felt an angel's loving touch, soft upon my heart
And with that touch, I felt the pain and hurt within depart
I felt an angel's tepid tears, fall softly next to mine
And knew that as those tears did dry a new day would be mine
I felt an angel's silken wings enfold me with pure love
And felt a strength within me grow, a strength sent from above
I felt an angel oh so close, though one I could not see
I felt an angel near today, sent to comfort me.

ANON


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To my sister, from heaven.

I just wanted you to know.
That I'll be with you wherever you go.
I've gotten my wings and learned how to fly.
And I'll dry your tears whenever you cry.

Though I've went away and it seems we're apart.
You will forever be my soul and my heart.
The love that we shared will not go astray.
For deep in my heart it will always stay.

You held me close when I was filled with pain.
And your smile gave me sunshine when my life filled with rain.
You guided me when no one else could.
You protected me when no one else would.

We've shared so much that mere words can't express how knowing you has made me feel truly blessed.
So please dear sister, fret not for me, for now my soul is truly free.
So think of me often, as much as you can.
And I'll always be there to hold your hand.
I'll be your angel and guide you through life.
I'll give you comfort through torment and strife.
So thanks dear sister again and again, thank you always for being my sister and my friend.

by Reginald Bush


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My Dad Charlie H 16/June 1924~29 January 2006
My Hearts broken~ you never love anyone like you love your Daddy xxxxxxxxxx

"Lullaby"
(feat. Ladysmith Black Mambazo)

Hush now baby don't you cry
Rest your wings my butterfly
Peace will come to you in time
And I will sing this lullaby

Know though I must leave, my child
That I would stay here by your side
And if you wake before I'm gone
Remember this sweet lullaby

And all love through darkness
Don't you ever stop believing
With love forlorn
With love you'll find your way
My love

The world has turned the day to dark
I leave this night with heavy heart
When I return to dry your eyes
I will sing this lullaby

Yes I will sing this lullaby
Oooooohhh

For Papa Charlie from (my wee boy born 3 weeks after my Dad died in 2006)(I've changed the words to
suit)

MY GRANDCHILD AND I

We are connected my Papa Charlie and I,
by an invisible cord not seen by the eye.
This cord it works right from the start,
it binds us together attached to my heart.
I know it's there though no one can see,
the invisible cord from my Papa to me.
The strength of this cord is hard to describe,
it can't be destroyed, it can't be defied.
It's stronger than any cord that man can create,
it withstands the test and can hold any weight.
And though you can't be here anymore with me,
the cord is still there but no one can see.
It pulls at my heart I am bruised and sore,
but this cord is my lifeline as never before.
I am thankful at least that we can connect in this way,
a Papa and a grandchild they can't take it away.

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Greatly Missed (Dad)
by Amy Richards
A Fathers touch, A Daddy's kiss,
A grieving Daughter, You're greatly missed.

An empty house, An empty chair,
A fathers love, No longer there.

A broken heart, Tear filled eye,
Another soul to fill the sky.

Many memories in my mind,
Some I laugh, Some I cry.

The times we shared, The laughs we had,
Things I miss when I think of you Dad.

Realizing that's all I have to hold on too,
Only memories, Of what once was you.

Missing your laugh, I will never again hear.
That is the reality that fills me with so much fear.

No more smile on your face,
No more warmth of your embrace.

The last hug, The last kiss,
The last "goodbye" leaves me with one last wish...

To have you Dad, here today,
Never to leave your Daughter this way.

A Father's touch, A Daddy's kiss,
A grieving Daughter, YOU'RE GREATLY MISSED!

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Daddy's Little Girl
by Punkin

If I had my life to do over,
I'd have chosen you to be my dad
once more.
Even if it meant losing you again,
It's worth all the tears in the
world.
You were my sunshine when skies
were grey.
I loved you and honoured you;
You took all my tears away.
I was happy to be with you,
Proud to be your little girl.
Sometimes we would argue,
But to me you meant the world.
Your love was always pure;
You treated me as your own.
Your time seemed all too short and
I feel so alone.
What can I take from this?
My heart is completely crushed.
But nothing loved is ever lost -
And you are loved so much.

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A Walk with Granpa(Papa Charlie)

I like to walk with Grandpa, His steps are short as mine.

He doesn’t say, Now hurry up! He always takes his time. Most people have to hurry,

They do not stop and see. I’m glad that God made Grandpa, unrushed

and young like me.

"Grandpa, grownups don't pay any attention to me."
said little Jimmy.
Grandpa replied, "They don't pay any attention to me
either."
"Grandpa, sometimes grownups make fun of me.
Do they make fun of you too?"
Grandpa said, "Yes son....me too."
"Grandpa, some days I get tired and have to rest in the
afternoon."
"I know, Jimmy....I do too." , said Grandpa.
"I love you Grandpa." said little Jimmy.
"And I love you too." Grandpa replied.
"I wish more people told me that." said Jimmy.
"Me too!" answered Grandpa.

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Beneath Your Wings


Beneath your strong wings Dad
You've taught me to fly.
Holding my hand
So high in the sky.

Your smile is so warm
As I look up at you.
You're guiding my path
With your heavenly hue.


Beneath your strong wings Dad
You've given me strength
To believe in myself
And soar to new lengths.

Your faith in me shows
What a true friend you are.
Helping me reach
For that shining new star.

Beneath your strong wings Dad
You protect me from harm.
You cradle my fears.
Held safe in your arms.

You've opened your heart
To share your sweet love
While your sheltering wings
Carried us high up above.

Beneath your strong wings Dad
I will always be there.
To love you and hug you
And show you I care.

To My Father,
You are the most dearest of all.
My angel, In your wings,
I will never fall.


KISSES ON YOUR BIRTHDAY XXXX

YOUR BIRTHDAY IN HEAVEN WILL BE FULL OF LAUGHTER AND LOVE
MAY YOU CELEBRATE WITH EVERY WITH ALL OUR ANGELS ABOVE
EACH AND EVERY ANGEL WILL SING HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU
JUST LIKE YOUR FAMILY ALWAYS USED TO DO

DO YOU HEAR THE CHOIR SING SO BEAUTIFUL TO YOU
THERE VOICES ARE CLEAR WITH LOVE JUST FOR TOO
WHILE WE ALL REMEMBER YOU EVERY SINGLE DAY
WE BLOW SO MANY KISSES ON YOUR BIRTHDAY

WE KNOW THEY WILL FLY HIGH TO HEAVEN FOR YOU
CATCH THEM ALL LIKE YOU USED TO ALWAYS DO
WE KNOW YOU HEAR ALL THE ANGEL BABIES GIGGLING WITH GLEE
FOR YOU WAS THE ONE THAT HELPED TO GUIDE THEM ALL TO BE FREE.......
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Tributes For Week Starting 2nd November

FOR MONDAY

There's a special kind of feeling,
That's meant for you alone,
A special place within our hearts,
That only you can own.

FOR TUESDAY

If only prayers were answered,
& wishes did come true,
Our only wishes with all our hearts,
Would be to still have you

FOR WEDNESDAY

We send this special message
To the heavens up above
Please take care of our precious angels
And give them all our love


FOR THURSDAY

I lit a candle for you today
May it's light reflect my love your way
Now I must go until next time
I will forever keep you, gently on my mind


FOR FRIDAY

Angels

When you were born, an angel smiled,
As you became a child, an angel sat on your shoulder
When you became an adult, an angel held your hand
As you grew old, an angel walked down the road with you,
And, when you died, another angel got their wings.


FOR SATURDAY

Letter From Heaven


To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
But first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said,
"I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed
While you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
Remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.


FOR SUNDAY

Reply to "Letter from Heaven"

My Dearest Loved one:

I received your Letter from Heaven,
It made the teardrops fall.
But knowing you’re with God above,
Sweet memories, I will recall.

I know that you are with me,
For I feel your presence near.
And if I listen closely,
Your voice I then can hear.

I know you’re watching o’er me,
As you promised you would do.
And when I feel so saddened,
It’s your letter that sees me through.

When I lay in bed at night,
The day’s chores put to flight,
I truly feel your presence,
Like a warm and glowing light.

The rocky roads you mentioned,
And the hills that I must climb;
I’ve done exactly what you said,
By taking one day at a time.

I’ve tried to help others,
Who are in sorrow and in pain.
And now I am contented,
My day was not in vain.

I’ll lend a hand, as you have said
When someone is feeling low.
I’ll pray for them and be here,
‘Till on their way they go.

And when it’s time for me to go,
To join you in heaven high.
My wings I shall spread wide,
To my home up in the sky.


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Thoughts Today, Memories Forever
Angela Christopher's Very Proud Mum

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Marie-Angela Rowe (Friend) 3 weeks ago




☆31ST OCTOBER 2009☆



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LOVE JUDE. XX

Jude Swaddle 4 weeks ago

Death Is Nothing At All

Death is nothing at all,
I have only slipped away
into the next room.

I am I,
and you are you;
whatever we were to each other,
that, we still are.

Call me by my old familiar name,
speak to me in the easy way
which you always used,
put no difference in your tone,
wear no forced air
of solemnity or sorrow.

Laugh as we always laughed
at the little jokes we shared together.
Let my name ever be
the household word that it always was.
Let it be spoken without effect,
without the trace of a shadow on it.

Life means all
that it ever meant.
It is the same as it ever was.
There is unbroken continuity.

Why should I be out of mind
because I am out of sight?

I am waiting for you,
for an interval,
somewhere very near,
just around the corner.

All is well.


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Henry Scott Holland
1847 -1918

Carol Boswell (Soul Mate) 4 weeks ago

NITE NITE SWEETHEART.XXX

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NITE NITE
SWEET DREAMS
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Love and Thanks for all your support.Lynn.xxx

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Dear God in Heaven up high..
Please watch our Angel's in the sky
Keep them safe..
Show them Love
They are our Special Angel's..
With you in Heaven above

God Bless all our Angel's x
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copyright� Jackie Thomas 18/10/09.
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Love as Always,Lynn.xxx.
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30th October 2009

♥ To The Special Angel In My Heart ♥

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♥ You are the Angel who I cherish ♥
♥ So dearly in this heart of mine ♥
♥ The one who makes my day brighter ♥
♥ By making my whole world shine ♥
♥ During all the darkest moments ♥
♥ When my skies turn cloudy and grey ♥
♥ You're the one who touches my heart ♥
♥ And makes everything seem okay. ♥

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Jude Swaddle 4 weeks ago

An Angel's Kiss

We go through life so often,
Not stopping to enjoy the day.
And we take each one for granted,
As we travel on our way.

For in your pain and sorrow,
An Angel's Kiss will help you through,
This kiss is very private,
For it is meant for only you.

We never stop to measure,
Anything we just might miss.
But if the wind should blow by softly,
You'll feel an Angel's Kiss.

A kiss that is sent from heaven,
A kiss from up above
A kiss that is very special,
From someone that you love.

So when, your hearts are heavy,
And filled with tears and pain.
And no one can console you,
Remember once again.

About the ones you grieve for,
Because you sadly miss.
And the gentle breeze you took for granted,
Was just an Angel's Kiss

Joyce Tidy 4 weeks ago

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Thibutes For Week Starting 26th October


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FOR MONDAY

In our hearts your memory lingers,
Sweetly tender, fond and true,
There is not a day, dear Loved One
That we do not think of you.

FOR TUESDAY

Nothing can ever take away
The love a heart holds dear.
Fond memories linger every day
Remembrance keeps them near.

FOR WEDNESDAY

Looking back with memories,
Upon the path you trod,
We bless the hours we had with you,
And leave the rest with God.

FOR THURSDAY

Those we love we never lose,
For always they will be,
Loved, remembered, treasured,
Always in our memory.

FOR FRIDAY

Memories Of Me

I’d like the memory of me
To be a happy one,
I’d like to leave an afterglow
Of smiles when life is done..

I’d like to leave an echo
Whispering softly down the ways,
Of happy times and laughing times
And bright and sunny days.

I’d like the tears of those who grieve,
To dry before the sun,
Of happy memories that I leave behind
When life is done.


FOR SATURDAY

Separated For Now


Although death has separated us physically,
Faith and love have bound us eternally.
Though we cannot see you,
We know you are here.
Though we cannot touch you,
We feel the warmth of your smile,
As we begin a new chapter in our lives.

Today we pause to reflect upon
Those who have shaped our character,
Molded our spirits and touched our hearts.
May the lighting of this candle be a
Reminder of the memories we have shared,
A representation of the everlasting
Impact you have made upon our lives.


FOR SUNDAY

A Special Gift

You were a gift sent straight from Heaven.
Given to us from God above.
We didn't know how much you would teach us
About the meaning of true love...

For true love sometimes means letting go
Of someone precious and dear.
That is what we were forced to do...
Although we wanted to keep you here!!!

However, this is quite a selfish wish.
One we know we should ignore...
But, sweet Angel, we truly do believe
That God must have needed you more...

Perhaps to be an Angel now,
Full of wisdom and love...
Watching over those of us who love you
From the shining stars above.

We miss you more than you can know.
You will never be replaced...
In our hearts and memories forever,
Will be your sweet and innocent sleeping face.



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Thoughts Today, Memories Forever
Angela Christopher’s Very Proud Mum

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Marie-Angela Rowe (Friend) October 25, 2009




23rd 0ctober 2009


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Jude Swaddle October 23, 2009

ELSPETH X

GOD CALLED YOUR NAME SO GENTLY
THAT ONLY YOU COULD HEAR
NO ONE HEARD THE FOOTSTEPS
OF A ANGEL DRAWING NEAR
SOFTLY FROM THE SHADOWS
THERE CAME A GENTLE CALL
YOU CLOSED YOUR EYES AND WENT TO SLEEP
AND QUITLY LEFT US ALL
LOVE YOU AWAYS CHER x

Cheryl Daley (Close Friend) October 23, 2009
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